Some Notes on Being Human
Now of course, the place you find yourself on either the Cognitive / Impassioned scale and the I / Other scale is not a static thing. If you gamed 10 years ago and you're gaming now, chances are that there are a handful of things about game back then that you'd just as happily not import into the present. Likewise, in next 10 years there are things you're doing now that you probably won't be doing then and vice versa. Like my Wargamer cum LARPer friend of a couple of posts ago, the things we do, both in life and in game change us (at least if we're doing it right) and changing as a person often means a shift in goals and priorities. What makes us happy now may not make us happy tomorrow or next year; what made us happy last year may never make us happy again.
Also, just because you put a dot on the scale that is meant to represent you doesn't mean that you are not capable of shifting to accommodate the situation at hand, or that you never act outside of the placement of that dot. When playing with strangers, I tend to play down the emotional scale to ensure that I don't make anyone at the table uncomfortable. I also tend to play closer to the "I" than usual to ensure that I am making directive decisions that will foster the fledgling social situation at the table.
Why does my dot wander? Well, because in that situation, my payoff and my goal are different than they usually are. My payoff might be "advance the social milieu of the group at hand, and have a fun, un-awkward night in the process". In that case, my goal isn't a cathartic one, it's entirely socially based goal that has little to do with the game. In that case I may not even be character socketed; I might adopt a social or story socket for the night, because the payoff is powerful enough to make it worth it.
Likewise, under constraints imposed by other players or by system, my dot might have to wander in specific situations. About six months ago, Brand and I introduced a group of our friends to My Life with Master. The point of the night wasn't even really to game, it was just to hang out. The point of playing MLWM was not to get impassioned or cathartic, it was to introduce some of our traditional RPG friends to some of what the Indie scene had to offer. It was a one shot, with a lot of players, so there wouldn't be a lot of time to create catharsis anyway. So my goal, my socket and my payoff weren't what they normally are, so my dot was in an entirely different place.
This is all to say that there is a difference between what you have occasionally done, what you did all the time a long time ago, what you are capable of doing, and what you do on a regular basis. When you're examining your goals, sockets and payoffs, it's important to identify if the situation you are analyzing is atypical, and therefore not representative of what you normally do to get your RPG rocks off.
When you are looking to place yourself on the scale what you're looking to do is to identify: when you are playing for the payoff you most often play for or the payoff you want most (note that these might not be the same thing), how do you want to experience the game and through what method will you interact with it? It may be very useful to you in the moment you are playing an atypical game to understand how your payoff is different than normal and how you respond to that shift, but to start with, it's most useful to trend yourself over the course of the payoff that you are trying to achieve most of the time.